See Yourself as Successful

Want to start your reality? Start with yourself. Think of yourself as your client. How do you make yourself successful with work, women, and life? Start with thinking in the image of success.

How do you look successful/attractive/etc... so you can see yourself as that.

What kind of clothes would you wear?

How would you comb your hair?

What would the expression be like on your face?

How would you stand?

How would you be groomed?

How would you deal with certain situations?

It starts with you, if you can see yourself successful then you'll be seen as successful by you and others. Then you can start acting successful.

Take a look in the mirror. The person you're seeing is your client. How would you help that person to be where he/she wants to be?

Be Unfulfilled Until the End...

I was talking with a customer today and he mentioned the movie Second String. He was throwing in all this info about the movie I couldn't really grasp all of it but I do remember his point. He said the movie was about a football team. The starters (cream of the crop) and the Second String (guys next to the better.) Well, the starters where acting as if they won every game already and it caused them to slip psychology and they weren't into the game, so the coach sent in the second string and they took over. I'm not going to spoil the story so i'll leave it there. Well, the point is, that when you don't have something, you really desire it and for some that can really motivate you to get what you want. Also being complacent wont get you any further. Sometimes you have to learn how it is to not have something to learn how to have it. You hear all these rags to riches stories, people not having anything and wanting it all, and then finally having it. Then you see in the media all these spoiled brats who have everything materially and it raises the question "what are they doing with their lives?" Desire can really be amplified through negative feelings like frustration, jealousy, envy, and not having. No i'm not recommending being negative, totally, but being positive all the time is straining and unnatural. Also being unfulfilled to the end reassures that you'll always be hungry. I'm not saying "don't do anything fulfilling." But i'm still thinking about it myself. Whose more likely to go farther, someone aiming to run a mile, or someone aiming for two miles. Even if you reach for the unattainable, you're likely to go far, but sometimes you have to realistic. Well those are my thoughts.

oh yeah if the grammar sucks, it's cause I typed this in a hurry and wanted to get it out there. I'll edit it later.

My Thoughts On Having a Vision

Peoples goals in life are not similar to everyone else. A Vision can be a way of living, a set of goals, an interpretation, an observation used to plan action, and so on. Mainly our Vision is our tool.

For example.

When I'm walking in a hallway of a library, it's dark because one of the light bulbs in the lantern(electric lantern) is dieing out, the hallway is fifty feet long, and 3 feet wide, there are tall bookshelves all with a lemon scent, and thick books in them. Now I look at all this and see a scene for a movie.

I'm at coffee shop and I meet a real cool person, I see a character for a play.

It's lunch time so I go in my car to recline so I'm half asleep. I make sure I'm parked under a tree because it's sunny outside. The sun is shining between the branches and leaves, so I see the shadow of the tree on my steering wheel, it's also a windy day and the tree dances to the wind and so does it's shadow. I think of a poem(a vision as well)

I see a kid in his bike riding down the street. I see the ending scene of a movie.

The way I interpret the World, is Vision for me.

For LaDainian Tomlinson of the San Diego Chargers.

His vision is what causes him to make great runs. Before the ball is even snapped. He's reading the defense and seeing which line backer is going where. Whose going to block the Cornerback. Where the holes are going to be. He's reading the defense before the ball is snapped.

Watching the Secret, you hear people talking about imagining an opening parking space and getting one, posting pictures of houses on cork boards and buying that house, painting pictures of them having success with women and having success with women.

What it does is that it puts an awareness into your mind, and when an opportunity comes up you'll notice it, because you're read for it, it's already in your mind.

You're conditioning yourself to use your Vision.

Well, so I've got an idea, I got index cards, and I'll write Vision on the blank side, and on the side with the lines, I'm going to write what it is I want, and every night(hopefully) I'll take a look at those cards and take my time to think about what's written, and how it would feel after having what I want.

Getting Back on Track

1. Prioritize - Organizing what you have to do really lays down a plan and clears your head.

2. Stop being distracted - Meaning, forget about what you don't really want, go for what you really want.

3. Resources - Look at what you have (talent, education, means, etc.) , apply it to the process of reaching your goals.

4. Rest - everybody needs it, we're not machines.

5. Fun time - Life isn't about work, work, and work. Have fun ; )

Test Day

I took a test today, which is step one and a half to start a career to start being stable. The night before I went to Bed after a hot shower because I was sick. The steam helps, but that's another story. So I wake up, being sick doesn't matter. When I wasn't sick I asked myself what would I do If I wasn't sick. I'd go out and such, well I figured I can still do that... so being sick doesn't stop me at all. I may do things a little bit slower but I do them. Well this test takes about four hours total. Breaks included of course. Two sections of the test count, the last one is about you. Well, 120 people showed up, 40 passed. It's a very hard test. I didn't passed. I was very disappointed for a moment, and then I thought, that I'm still going to take the test. I'm going to pass it the next time. They said that out of all the people who take it nationwide on 30% passed. They're saying I'm not alone. They also said they make it hard for a reason, and the whole process is hard to get through. This will be one of the toughest challenges for me in life... I'm determined though. I may have felt somewhat disappointed for a slight moment, but I'm determined and still interested and getting this done.

Dreaming

It's like we're always working to make our dreams a reality, so we can have what we desire. To be able to live in the state or feeling when you're dreaming, but in real life. Sadly some people don't have a dream, and continue to float, moving in the air, like a leaf, blowing here and there. Thankfully, some are searching, and others have one. The Secret talks about how we can get what we want, by thinking about it, having an awareness of it. I get what they're are saying. Dreams are like road maps, and that feeling of happiness, joy, ecstasy when you dream or think of what you desire can be inspiration.