A Woman's Walk

so you're talking to a Woman you've known for some bit, and there's attraction there, but since you'll see her again, you're not so aggressive. You guys are leaving the building you both work at. Her company is on the other end, you're on the opposite side. Well you both are chit chattin' it up after work and you notice the way she's walking, she's talking to you to keep you're attention, then she gradually speeds up her walk and you do to, to keep the conversation going.

Well in my experience, when this happens, it's like a hooking method or a test to gauge how interested you are in her. You're walking with her, and she gradually speeds up and walk, but she's talking to you, to hold you're attention, and she's looking if you'll follow her lead, if she'll hook you, if you're interested in her or some combination. You can walk with her at the speed she sets or you can stay your own speed and have her match yours, you can say see you later, or you can stop her. I'd stop her or take my own pace depending on where I'm going. You can stop her by getting in front of her and saying "hold on" while holding her by her sides. If she's walking fast, but not talking to you, that's a sign that she doesn't want your attention. There's a difference if she's talking to you or not.

Now, if she's walking and it looks so sexy. Her body is swaying and fluid. Her legs are strutting, her hips swaying, her waist being stretched from her hips and she's in you're area, very close to you, suggestively and she's looking at you, checking you out. Well, do I have to spell it out? She's very receptive to you.

Movement

There's something about movement. When you go to In and Out because you're hungry and their burgers are better than others and you see a chick. She's walking, hips in motion because her legs are striding, not much upper body movement, but since her legs are moving, which is swaying her hips, and her hips are stretching out her waist... it's so sexy. It's how she moves. I remember someone in High School who had a very distinct walk, but her walk was too "extravagant" that it looked like she wanted attention. It has to be subtle. I can't remember where I read it, oh wait, now I do. Steve Piccus talked about how to gauge a woman's comfort with her body. You look at her hips and if they sway fluidly when she's walking, that's a good sign that she's comfortable with herself. Speaking of books, Sexual Chemistry by Julius Fast talks about movement and how it can be bring sexual chemistry. I just hope no one gets too self-conscious when the move.

My Rule: Don't Hook Up at Places I Always Go To

So, I'm at a taco shop and the lady that works there is really sexy. The way she walked flowed. I'd compare her movement to the sea washing on the shore, mildly moving back and forth on the shore, but very noticeable. The sides of her hips moved up and down and she would walk back and forth passing me while being inches away from me. I wanted to grab her with my hands. Then realize where in front of everybody, so I grab her hand, lead her to the back by kicking the door open, hurrying pass the kitchen to an isolated spot, bend her over and start pounding away. I don't. I wanted to look at her, but I didn't even do that. Half of me said not to. From what I heard my cousin saw her checking me out. She was so close to me I can feel it. I wanted to feel it. But I held back and restrained myself. I have this rule. If I always go to a certain place( a store, work, coffee shop, etc.) I don't try to hook up with any women there, because I'll see them again whether things turn out well or not. Well, there's a Chinese scroll hanging on my wall. Painted on it is a bowl of fruits and Chinese characters which symbolize Abundance. There's other Women.

Damn, I am in such a rage, it's suffering. I think I'll go do a 1000 push ups now.

Interesting, she's not even the type that catches my eye physically.